It’s very important to be brave ​

So, while jammin’ to Traffic Cop neh, the entire time I was repeating the song, I was thinking one thing:​ Oskido, Bruce Sebitlo, Trompies, Don Laka and all those talented dudes decided to have the guts to open up their own shops — record the music and sell it from the boot of their cars.​ …

My heritage and my past make me an animal

Give me your attention for a short while. Indulge. Feast your eyes on exhibit Themba Jay, if you will. If I may just brag a little. Okay. Anyway . . . Lest I digress. I feel proud. Of being myself. A global citizen (it feels good when you believe the world is small and needs …

My sister’s keeper

I thought I should write down some things you need to look out for on your dating path sis'. More importantly, on your way from being a beautiful girl to an elegant and sophisticated woman. The road ahead is blissful and filled with happiness. Again, emotionally challenging. Even a GPS wouldn't help much in navigating …

The strategy I used to rethink and remake myself

Look. Like we all do, I slipped up at some point in my life and forgot who I really am and the standards I once upheld. (A grave mistake. Letting the world dictate how to live.) And I’ll be honest with ya: it is awfully difficult to live freely from society’s limitations, beliefs and (negative) …

Six life lessons from Jerry Maguire

I believe there are a few things which match an incredible story intertwined with rich lessons. Nothing like a well recounted story. I love stories; listening to them, reading them, telling them. They have the ability to alter your being and move you in unimaginable ways. And Jerry Maguire's (portrayed by Tom Cruise) isn't short …